It seemed such a fitting song to be playing on Radio Port Douglas, early this morning, as I fired-up the car, pumped-up the radio & made my way-in to my home away from home, Origin Espresso.
The song - It begins by telling a little story, recounted in part below, before hitting home with the chorus.......to my amazement, I hadn't heard this awesome song before.
The lyrics really rang home to me, making me smile, as lyrics are apt to do, and at this particular juncture in my life, they really could not have been more appropriate:
It is entitled 'Welcome To Your Barbeque'
The road is long and windy
Full of twists and turns
But before you can rise from the ashes
You've got to burn baby burn
Welcome to your barbeque
Where we roast all the dreams
That never came true
Welcome to your barbeque
Just Pig-out and dream anew
They must have received a cosmic request at Radio Port Douglas, since clearly, my soul had sent-out a take-away request for that one.
It was, unquestionably & most definitely, meant for Me.
Of course, it's so much easier to tell ourselves not to revisit our pasts, to let it all go, but we do go back, time and again. Sometimes, we're looking for answers, sometimes, looking back in anger, reflecting upon how we find ourselves - sometimes, in fact most often, it is repeatedly so that we do this - at the place where we now are, we reflect upon times gone-by, and usually revisit what might be referred to as The Bad Old Days - not always, since there are so many things that we remember with fondness, but certainly often.
And just how is that tried & true method working-out for us?
We cannot literally set-fire to our pasts, but we do need to find the strength to let most things go, and to continue this as an ongoing & continual work in progress.........when we find ourselves revisiting our past....where we have been, we need to remind ourselves of the Now, most importantly, along with looking forward to what magnificence and joy may lay ahead for us - that we cannot predict or know what this may be should only add to it's anticipated pleasure.
Yes, very easy to say, but so hard to do, let alone master.
It's something I, like so many others, no doubt - (and it's not any source of comfort that we aren't alone, even when it may constantly seem that only We have such dilemmas and such troubled lives!) - I am currently struggling with it, and I remind myself that, if what has transpired ever really mattered to me, then it's bound to hurt, and hurt a lot.
I guess, then, we have to grieve, for it's passing.....to go though the grieving process as if a very dear friend had passed-on, but then, we should choose to remember a dear friend in all of the good ways, for the rest of our own days on this Earth - I guess, again, that we can't always do that too successfully, either, but we should aim in this direction always.
Surely, we are meant to do this?
Can we, then, dissect away all of the 'good' parts of our pasts that we continually resurrect & revisit in our thoughts, and use only those things to recall & reflect upon?
I don't have the answers - but, if we could, if such a thing is attainable, then I suspect we would be able to heal so much more quickly - we should at least try, if we must reflect, or abandon reflection altogether. Rather than taking this route, instead, with some things, we tend to seek far too many answers, where sometimes, even usually, there are none to be found......with other things, there are an abundance of answers many of which we are only too aware, and we all too often & readily elect to remind ourselves of our own errors, and the errors of others who have been within our lives, as if they can somehow really matter and make any difference as such to our life that follows........and how much use is all of this reinforcement of what we have done wrong, of the wrongs others have done to us? Just where is the pay-off here?
Is it simple catharsis, this act of revisiting our pasts - even what I am doing right now, writing this down......is this really beneficial to my own healing?
Again, it's not a rhetorical question in any way, and I have no answers, simply more speculation as a fellow truth seeker and member of the Human Race.
Certainly, we ask a great many more questions of ourselves as we advance in years, likely, almost without doubt, due to our increasing awareness of our own mortality - and it is good to seek answers, to have an inquiring mind, for want of a much better term.....it's in our nature, yes, but that doesn't mean that it's to our benefit and not, in it's very essence, to our detriment.
I think we need to really, properly and fully analyze just what we actually achieve by constantly looking backwards to all of these previous junctures of our lives.......constantly peering back towards the Gone, to the Done - it seems plain enough to see that we are harming ourselves constantly by doing so, and the pay-off, if there is one, is infinitesimally small.
Does it make us happy when we look back at what has been?
Is it ultimately beneficial to those around us, some of whom may care deeply about us and our well-being - we cannot possibly be projecting and giving the very best version of Us.....we are, in effect, 'short-changing' the people in our lives and around us who matter most, by giving them this second-rate version of Ourselves.
Does it help us retain any kind of focus for living in the moment - does it help us to stop along the tracks, to smell the roses along the way, to savour each & every moment as it travels alongside us in parallel with our life-path?
It's so absurd that we cannot see the blatantly obvious answers to this foolishly obvious thing - it is gross neglect of our own soul in the extreme, to not absorb all of the joy around us, yet even as I type these words, my mind freely wanders away into reflective mode, and what enters my mind now are all the usual suspects of Guilt, Regret, Anger, Sadness, Remorse - there are more, so many more, but these are the major culprits...........I become angry with myself now, reminding myself of the futility of searching backwards in time, punishing myself for crimes I did not even commit, and doing it over and over again, repeatedly.
I tell myself, again, that what has gone has Gone, but the urge to look back is so strong and all-consuming. I know what it is that I need to do, yet feel, for the most part, powerless to do anything that will help me achieve what is, on paper at least, this most simple of outcomes....to live in the Now.
This is why it must be an ongoing work, why I must never again neglect my soul, never again take the risk of putting it on auto-pilot, trusting it to take care of itself. Like a flower, like a plant, it requires nurturing - and our soul is akin to one of those very rare plants, perhaps one that only flowers once every 10 years, and only then if all conditions are absolutely perfect for it.
Bad analogy, yes, for sure, but the best one I can come-up with so early in the morning, and still only on my second flat white.
We must give freely to those around us, but primarily, we must give to Ourselves - it's not the 'proverbial' Rocket Science, but how often do we forget - I find myself now wondering about the truly selfish, and sadly, there are such people in this beautiful world we live in.
Do they have these issues?
In it's most simplistic of forms, surely they keep almost all things for themselves....one might be forgiven for thinking that they are overflowing with their own Love, and thus are immune from ever being hurt - they never come close to making themselves so vulnerable by giving too much at all to others, since by their very nature, they are Selfish.
I feel very sure that there are alternative prices to pay for being this way - perhaps they still find themselves with an abundance of love from their fellow friends or partners. (maybe I need to convert and become a Bad Guy - it's a very well-known fact that all the really great girls love a Bad Guy, so I ought to do well enough, surely?)
I feel sure that the reality is very different - there exists, somewhere out there, an equation that relates directly to Love and to Giving freely, with the return at least in proportion or greater than that as given.
Then again, it cannot be an all-encompassing equation without variables (yes, yes, I'll hop-out of the Mathematical analogy thing real soon!) - historically, though, some have given so sacrificially, and have paid the ultimate price for doing so....I'm sure I don't need to quote names, since there are plenty out there.
To get off the Maths thing, let's wrap the sucker up by suggesting that there may be a single equation with many variables, or a multitude of equations plus or minus what could be an infinite number of variables......or, should you prefer, we have not the first idea what is going-on, we simply do not know how it all works, nor are we really meant to know.
Each night now, I settle into bed with my earpieces firmly in place, listening to teachings from the minds of far greater philosophers than I will ever be - although I secretly do not wish that sweeping statement to be a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I could state something as inane as 'I am much more a 'deep-thinker' than a Philosopher per se', but you might all laugh at me if I stated that.
Ooops!
Each night, via the magic that are AudioBooks, I also 'absorb' some beautifully simple principles, and it's as though the speaker is talking directly to Me - he must be, since he seems to know all about me, about my circumstances, my life as it has been and as it now is - parts of me suspect the speaker to be my house-mate, yet as amazing as he is, this dude doing the talking knows way too many things.......not that I am a secretive soul, au contrere, yet the man talking to me seems so much closer than the closest friend.......who has told him all this stuff??
It's amazing, wonderful, to have this person talking directly to Me, and the only down-side to any of it is that, every night, I fall asleep eventually (even amidst the fascination of what this guy is telling me, yes!)........I crash and fall asleep, missing what is without any doubt Very Important Information.
As you may have correctly guessed, I then need to back-track through the audiobook to the point at which I lapsed - a small price to pay, and I can usually always directly find it readily enough the next night.
Oh, the guy's name??
It's Eckhart Tolle.
The books?
The Power Of Now, A New Earth, Awakening Into The Now and others........he's a very prolific writer and his works will benefit any and all who are open to change, are in distress, are lost and feeling alone, in crisis of any kind. I am no promoter, simply someone who has benefited and continues to benefit from the teachings of this absolutely incredible man.
So, if you'll excuse me, I have a lot more work to do - having a comprehensive knowledge of Anatomy & Human Physiology is of little use in the metaphysical realm - in the end, it's more about belief and trust in the power to change, to nurture and never neglect our own soul as a means toward such an end, and the need to remind ourselves that it will always, always be a work in progress until we draw our very last breath.
Sunday, 25 March 2012
Saturday, 24 March 2012
Louder Than Bombs
That feeling that can come along, sometimes and, if we are blessed, more than once or twice, where it's as if someone has turned-on a very bright light.....check that my sunglasses are on and in-place - yes, not that, then........light much too bright for something so simple.
It's a realization, one so obvious, of being surrounded by Love, itself being shown and displayed in all manner of ways, by people all around me. More love, much, much more Love, different yet more meaningful love than experienced with a close partner, one who has shared my life and everything within it.
Yes.......a bold statement to make, but I have satisfied myself that it is a true one.
I am amongst amazing people.....surrounded by people......who care. Having recently just about arrived at the point where I can rebuild my shattered heart & life, on my own, without the aid of a safety net, which is, really, where we are all at in this life, I cannot believe how many amazing people surround me, how many are there for me, without expectation of anything in return.
Yet, they have always been there.....The safety net was there all along......we are all alone, yet we are never alone.
I say that these amazing people are all there 'without expectation of anything', but of course, I am expected to be Me.....no major problemo, and I can readily do what I have always done, and be Me, only better, stronger.......the best version of Me that I can be.
Being Me, though, didn't work-out too well for me with my now ex-partner, and whilst I have tried to make some sense of it all, the answers, not that they really matter, were there, plain to see all of the time and staring me in the face.
It has taken me a few years to fully realize that my own emphasis upon virtues such as honesty and openness, with an almost abnormal emphasis on Trust, has been of no use whatsoever to me within that relationship - values, as held by others due to cultural divides, usually meant little to my partner. In accepting my own guilt for whatever my own part has been for our downfall, I will likely never fully understand the reasoning for such waste, but then, I am not meant to understand.
Who am I to expect such things in others I elect to be with as my partner - seriously, it's very much down to me in ensuring that all is well with whomever I am with - I think, sometimes, it's so often the case that we all gloss-over what appear, at the time, to be minor details, which later turn-out to be much more important and significant than we have allowed for.......yes, these things can and do come back to bite us, and bite us hard, if we have been foolish enough to give all of ourselves.
But fuck all of this reflective shite.......No matter all of this, since it has been determined that I now find myself here in Paradise, flying Solo.
As if I should complain.
That even I had been walking around with my eyes closed was perfectly exemplified yesterday - and it merely goes to illustrate just how insular and withdrawn I had become, even living here in Paradise.......I hadn't realized at all.
I am, and have always been a man who truly appreciates the wonder of the tropics, always stopping to smell the roses, or at least thinking so.
After helping me mechanically with what we'll refer to as 'my car troubles', in joint company with another friend Roy, (present for his own part in classic 'observer/advisory mode' only) my friend and Barista Supremo, Glen, suggested we go for a dip at Mossman Gorge - it was the sort of hot and sticky day where such things are not questioned, and I made a grab for my togs and off we went, at very high-speed, in the Mitsubishi Legnum of Joy, to Mossman Gorge.
I had visited the gorge many times, yet never swam there - on arrival, we went for it, swimming across to a large rock some 30 metres out. The water was so cool, and needed caution when first entering. Fitter dudes than I (ie, almost everyone else) have had cardiac arrests due to the shock of the cold immersion.........but man, it was so beautiful. Once on the rock, watching the beauty all around us, it was pure magic, and I just could not bring myself to believe that I had been here for so long and not done this yet. I was even a little angry with myself, but vowed to ensure I would never be so foolish again.
What an epiphany......I felt so alive, and for the first time in such a long time, wanted to Live, really live my life, seeing with such clarity how incredibly lucky I am to be placed here, in this magical, wonderful part of the world. I know now, with certainty, that there is so much more than simply hope, that I need to go-on and live, and to live well. There is purpose and meaning to my life that can never now be taken away.
Over at another good friends place the other evening, along with my housemate Mark.....let's call my other good friend Roy, since this is his name (you will recall that you briefly met Roy a little earlier, as he was helping me with my car, along with Glen).
Now, Roy is still very much reeling from his recent sojourn to the Philippines for what were 10 days of.......well, pleasure, I guess one would call it. Roy, not being a greedy man, found a very sweet woman and remained with only her for the duration of his stay, rather than taking the 'sampler' option, choosing quality over quantity.
Listening to his recount of events, one could be forgiven for thinking that there were more, such was his special lady's adeptness and agility to be in 'many places at the same time' as it were, no doubt. Unquestionably, though, she was a wonderful companion and friend, and someone who has very clearly brought a great deal of happiness to Roy.
Roy went-on to tell us, when we asked about the availability of condoms, to tell us that there were all manner and kinds of them, different colours, some with horns and Mickey Mouse heads on the end etc. (which all goes to show just how long I had been 'out of the loop')
He firmly and rather proudly stated that he 'took his own over there' and 'only ever used Australian condoms'.
It seemed an appropriate moment to ask him if he had ever noticed the 'Australian Standards' logo as stamped upon the Aussie condoms, and when he replied 'No', I reminded him that he simply "hadn't rolled it down far enough".
Much merriment and chuckles were had, and Mark almost stepped on the dog's balls.....you had to be there really, but said extra-large dogs genitals (since both the dog and it's balls were massively over-sized) were just below his size 16 thong : he's a big guy, is Mark, almost as big as Roy's dog, which really isn't a dog at all, more an over-grown Bengal Tiger, such is the size of him. He was, though, as good as gold all night long, laying down on the cool tiled floor, doing little other than acknowledging our presence every few minutes with the slightest wag of his fucking huge & enormous tail.
He was a beautiful thing, for all of his size, and I can't wait to meet him again - the dog, he was magnificent also.
But back to this Philippines thing - when does it become ok to go and visit such a place as a single man? I haven't ever really been single for long enough to contemplate such things, and I guess we could call it serendipitous that I have never had to search too far for pleasures of the flesh, although many would argue that being married 'doesn't count', in which case I have endured a desperate famine.
I have, though, been to Thailand 3 times, each and every one of them with a woman, who was, most often, my wife. Talk about taking snow to the Eskimo's, or carrying coals to Newcastle, as we would say in the U.K.
I enjoyed the scenic and cultural side of all of my Thailand holidays, all of which were way back in the 1980's, yet the bar girls most often would ignore the fact that I was actually with someone, and rub their eager crotches up and down my leg regardless. What can a man do.......I did ask them to stop, and after a few hours, they did. My wife/partner went a little further than this by pushing them away, or trying to, since there were so many of them. Such was the way of things for the lovely Thai bar girls, when they were not busy chatting to one another, eating a bag of deep-fried crickets eagerly and avidly.
I suspect that little has changed there, and that also, life in the Philippines would not differ greatly from it.
Do I, though, actually want to go there, as a now single man?
Fuck, yes!!.........What do you think I am, fucking crazy???!!!???
Of course, it wouldn't be all about the shagging and fooling around.......there's a whole culture waiting for me to immerse myself within, exotic foods to be sampled and enjoyed, ancient temples and markets to be visited, unmarried Philippino women to be admired & entertained........no, it wouldn't all be about the shagging.
I believe that Roy will be making a return visit in November, with possibly an interim visit sneaking-in after Easter, if all goes to plan for him. I've begun saving, just in case I need that kind of a culture shock, for the November sortie........now then, don't go judge me too harshly........and of course, I promise to wear at least 3 condoms and smear myself in protective jelly, which can actually be a lot of fun, I'm told. I have, for the information of anyone, been surgically amended, happy in the knowledge that my contribution to the gene pool is more than complete. More than enough seeds have been sewn, and I have been firing blanks now for around 7 years - I will, given the opportunity, bang-off a great many more before I finally drop-off the twig and Bite the Big One. I will, though, go-on and live to be at least 100 yrs old.
For now, though, as I sip on the first of a great many Flat Whites here in Everything-Is-Possible-Land, and on polling day here in Queensland, all seems to be well. The cafe is beginning to swell a little with regulars and tourists alike, and even for the off-season, there are a few of those around. I really ought to go and get my vote cast, even though a landslide victory for the LNP is predicted - Bob Katter has tried his best with his Australian Party, but even a break-dancing video cannot completely disguise an absolute knob-jockey, albeit a well-meaning one. Our Bob, bless him, he is loved and loathed in just about equal quantities.
The sky is blue, the sun is shining brightly, the natives are friendly, and I am very much Alive.
My Face Will Be Leaving In 5 Minutes.......................Be On It.
It's a realization, one so obvious, of being surrounded by Love, itself being shown and displayed in all manner of ways, by people all around me. More love, much, much more Love, different yet more meaningful love than experienced with a close partner, one who has shared my life and everything within it.
Yes.......a bold statement to make, but I have satisfied myself that it is a true one.
I am amongst amazing people.....surrounded by people......who care. Having recently just about arrived at the point where I can rebuild my shattered heart & life, on my own, without the aid of a safety net, which is, really, where we are all at in this life, I cannot believe how many amazing people surround me, how many are there for me, without expectation of anything in return.
Yet, they have always been there.....The safety net was there all along......we are all alone, yet we are never alone.
I say that these amazing people are all there 'without expectation of anything', but of course, I am expected to be Me.....no major problemo, and I can readily do what I have always done, and be Me, only better, stronger.......the best version of Me that I can be.
Being Me, though, didn't work-out too well for me with my now ex-partner, and whilst I have tried to make some sense of it all, the answers, not that they really matter, were there, plain to see all of the time and staring me in the face.
It has taken me a few years to fully realize that my own emphasis upon virtues such as honesty and openness, with an almost abnormal emphasis on Trust, has been of no use whatsoever to me within that relationship - values, as held by others due to cultural divides, usually meant little to my partner. In accepting my own guilt for whatever my own part has been for our downfall, I will likely never fully understand the reasoning for such waste, but then, I am not meant to understand.
Who am I to expect such things in others I elect to be with as my partner - seriously, it's very much down to me in ensuring that all is well with whomever I am with - I think, sometimes, it's so often the case that we all gloss-over what appear, at the time, to be minor details, which later turn-out to be much more important and significant than we have allowed for.......yes, these things can and do come back to bite us, and bite us hard, if we have been foolish enough to give all of ourselves.
But fuck all of this reflective shite.......No matter all of this, since it has been determined that I now find myself here in Paradise, flying Solo.
As if I should complain.
That even I had been walking around with my eyes closed was perfectly exemplified yesterday - and it merely goes to illustrate just how insular and withdrawn I had become, even living here in Paradise.......I hadn't realized at all.
I am, and have always been a man who truly appreciates the wonder of the tropics, always stopping to smell the roses, or at least thinking so.
After helping me mechanically with what we'll refer to as 'my car troubles', in joint company with another friend Roy, (present for his own part in classic 'observer/advisory mode' only) my friend and Barista Supremo, Glen, suggested we go for a dip at Mossman Gorge - it was the sort of hot and sticky day where such things are not questioned, and I made a grab for my togs and off we went, at very high-speed, in the Mitsubishi Legnum of Joy, to Mossman Gorge.
I had visited the gorge many times, yet never swam there - on arrival, we went for it, swimming across to a large rock some 30 metres out. The water was so cool, and needed caution when first entering. Fitter dudes than I (ie, almost everyone else) have had cardiac arrests due to the shock of the cold immersion.........but man, it was so beautiful. Once on the rock, watching the beauty all around us, it was pure magic, and I just could not bring myself to believe that I had been here for so long and not done this yet. I was even a little angry with myself, but vowed to ensure I would never be so foolish again.
What an epiphany......I felt so alive, and for the first time in such a long time, wanted to Live, really live my life, seeing with such clarity how incredibly lucky I am to be placed here, in this magical, wonderful part of the world. I know now, with certainty, that there is so much more than simply hope, that I need to go-on and live, and to live well. There is purpose and meaning to my life that can never now be taken away.
Over at another good friends place the other evening, along with my housemate Mark.....let's call my other good friend Roy, since this is his name (you will recall that you briefly met Roy a little earlier, as he was helping me with my car, along with Glen).
Now, Roy is still very much reeling from his recent sojourn to the Philippines for what were 10 days of.......well, pleasure, I guess one would call it. Roy, not being a greedy man, found a very sweet woman and remained with only her for the duration of his stay, rather than taking the 'sampler' option, choosing quality over quantity.
Listening to his recount of events, one could be forgiven for thinking that there were more, such was his special lady's adeptness and agility to be in 'many places at the same time' as it were, no doubt. Unquestionably, though, she was a wonderful companion and friend, and someone who has very clearly brought a great deal of happiness to Roy.
Roy went-on to tell us, when we asked about the availability of condoms, to tell us that there were all manner and kinds of them, different colours, some with horns and Mickey Mouse heads on the end etc. (which all goes to show just how long I had been 'out of the loop')
He firmly and rather proudly stated that he 'took his own over there' and 'only ever used Australian condoms'.
It seemed an appropriate moment to ask him if he had ever noticed the 'Australian Standards' logo as stamped upon the Aussie condoms, and when he replied 'No', I reminded him that he simply "hadn't rolled it down far enough".
Much merriment and chuckles were had, and Mark almost stepped on the dog's balls.....you had to be there really, but said extra-large dogs genitals (since both the dog and it's balls were massively over-sized) were just below his size 16 thong : he's a big guy, is Mark, almost as big as Roy's dog, which really isn't a dog at all, more an over-grown Bengal Tiger, such is the size of him. He was, though, as good as gold all night long, laying down on the cool tiled floor, doing little other than acknowledging our presence every few minutes with the slightest wag of his fucking huge & enormous tail.
He was a beautiful thing, for all of his size, and I can't wait to meet him again - the dog, he was magnificent also.
But back to this Philippines thing - when does it become ok to go and visit such a place as a single man? I haven't ever really been single for long enough to contemplate such things, and I guess we could call it serendipitous that I have never had to search too far for pleasures of the flesh, although many would argue that being married 'doesn't count', in which case I have endured a desperate famine.
I have, though, been to Thailand 3 times, each and every one of them with a woman, who was, most often, my wife. Talk about taking snow to the Eskimo's, or carrying coals to Newcastle, as we would say in the U.K.
I enjoyed the scenic and cultural side of all of my Thailand holidays, all of which were way back in the 1980's, yet the bar girls most often would ignore the fact that I was actually with someone, and rub their eager crotches up and down my leg regardless. What can a man do.......I did ask them to stop, and after a few hours, they did. My wife/partner went a little further than this by pushing them away, or trying to, since there were so many of them. Such was the way of things for the lovely Thai bar girls, when they were not busy chatting to one another, eating a bag of deep-fried crickets eagerly and avidly.
I suspect that little has changed there, and that also, life in the Philippines would not differ greatly from it.
Do I, though, actually want to go there, as a now single man?
Fuck, yes!!.........What do you think I am, fucking crazy???!!!???
Of course, it wouldn't be all about the shagging and fooling around.......there's a whole culture waiting for me to immerse myself within, exotic foods to be sampled and enjoyed, ancient temples and markets to be visited, unmarried Philippino women to be admired & entertained........no, it wouldn't all be about the shagging.
I believe that Roy will be making a return visit in November, with possibly an interim visit sneaking-in after Easter, if all goes to plan for him. I've begun saving, just in case I need that kind of a culture shock, for the November sortie........now then, don't go judge me too harshly........and of course, I promise to wear at least 3 condoms and smear myself in protective jelly, which can actually be a lot of fun, I'm told. I have, for the information of anyone, been surgically amended, happy in the knowledge that my contribution to the gene pool is more than complete. More than enough seeds have been sewn, and I have been firing blanks now for around 7 years - I will, given the opportunity, bang-off a great many more before I finally drop-off the twig and Bite the Big One. I will, though, go-on and live to be at least 100 yrs old.
For now, though, as I sip on the first of a great many Flat Whites here in Everything-Is-Possible-Land, and on polling day here in Queensland, all seems to be well. The cafe is beginning to swell a little with regulars and tourists alike, and even for the off-season, there are a few of those around. I really ought to go and get my vote cast, even though a landslide victory for the LNP is predicted - Bob Katter has tried his best with his Australian Party, but even a break-dancing video cannot completely disguise an absolute knob-jockey, albeit a well-meaning one. Our Bob, bless him, he is loved and loathed in just about equal quantities.
The sky is blue, the sun is shining brightly, the natives are friendly, and I am very much Alive.
My Face Will Be Leaving In 5 Minutes.......................Be On It.
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